Record your experiences
Document progress and growth, identify patterns and lay the groundwork for improved communication to enable more informed decisions
Capture memorable moments for you and how you're feeling that day
Rate
Your Relationship
Give a 1-to-5-star rating on how you’re feeling about the relationship today
Make
a Journal Entry
Record fun and drama moments, and
capture thoughts and wishes you’d like to share electronically with your Person
Play
the Dating Game
Save any questions discovered while playing the game worth discussing later
Consider almost daily rating how you feel, and record in your journal any fun and drama moments together
Why record your experiences
Advantages
Recording what is going on in your intimate relationship can serve several purposes
Encourage Reflection and Awareness
Recording allows you to reflect on the dynamics and experiences within your relationship. It helps you gain a deeper awareness of patterns, behaviors, and emotions that may be influencing the relationship positively or negatively.
Identify Patterns
By documenting what is happening in your relationship, you can identify recurring patterns or themes. This can help you recognize triggers, conflicts, or issues that may require attention or resolution.
Gain an Objective Perspective
Recording provides an objective perspective on your relationship. It allows you to step back and observe the situation from a different angle, potentially providing insights that may have been overlooked in the midst of emotions or daily life.
Foster Communication and Resolution
Recording can facilitate communication between you and your partner. It provides a reference point to discuss experiences, challenges, or concerns openly and constructively. It helps create a shared understanding and promotes effective problem-solving and conflict resolution.
Document Progress and Growth
Documenting your relationship journey allows you to track progress and growth over time. It provides a record of milestones, achievements, and positive changes, reminding you of the journey you have undertaken together.
Assist with Personal Development
Recording what is going on in your relationship can lead to personal growth and self-awareness. It helps you recognize your own strengths, weaknesses, and areas for improvement, fostering personal development within the context of the relationship.
Enable More Informed Decisions
Regularly documenting your relationship can serve as an evaluation tool. It allows you to assess the overall health and satisfaction of the relationship and make informed decisions about its future.
Remember that recording what is happening in your relationship should be done with honesty and respect. If you’re recording moments of drama, ask yourself how did you contribute to the moment? The intent in capturing what is going on for you in the relationship is to help identify patterns, find clarity, and open doors to improved communications.
Document the whispers of your hearts, for within the pages of your shared story lies the blueprint to nurture, grow, and elevate your intimate bond
- Vince Vasquez
Author of Relationship Workout
