More Fun, Less Drama

Choose a better partner | Be a better partner

Looking for Your Person?

Reduce the time and emotional pain dating the wrong people

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In a Relationship?

Improve the quality
of your intimate relationship

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Couples Therapist?

Inform, enhance and accelerate
therapy results with data

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Receive Personalized Recommendations

Gain insights on "what" you can do to improve the quality of your relationship ...

And "how" ...

Within an hour and without the aid of a therapist, through the Relationship Workout Program.

Record Your Experiences

Track your progress, identify patterns and lay the groundwork for improved communication and drama resolution

Track Progress and Trends

Track, analyze, and monitor how your relationship is doing to raise awareness, detect issues early and enable goal setting

Show Others You Care

Display to others you care about being a better partner, demonstrating your commitment to personal growth

Determine core compatibility alignment early on to help avoid misunderstandings and spending time dating the wrong people

Share to compare points of view with your Person and Therapist to enhance mutual understanding and strengthen connection

Why You Should Care

Too much pain. Too much divorce.

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64% of singles have gone through the breakup of a long-term relationship

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58% of singles say that breakups are usually dramatic or messy, or both

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18% of people over 50 say their biggest regret in life is marrying the wrong person

Choose to be happy:
Choose a good partner for you

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60% of married couples are unhappy

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49% of couples have attended some form of counseling with their spouse

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45% of marriages end in divorce on average in 8 years

Choose to be happier:
Be a good partner to the person you choose

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Be intentional in choosing a better partner,
and being a better partner to the person you choose.

Reduce the drama in your relationship,
so you have more time and energy
to have more fun together.

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Don't waste time
dating the wrong people

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Don't inject toxic drama
into your committed relationship

But it’s difficult to choose a good partner and be a good partner if you don’t know how good (or bad) your relationship is.

And why?

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Welcome to Relationship Workout

An AI-powered, self-care service
to discover and improve the quality
of your intimate relationship.

Discover

how good your relationship is
as a foundational step to improving it

Improve

the quality of your relationship by learning where to focus efforts to make things better

Show

others you care
about being a better partner

Your Relationship Gym

Your Person(s)

Track the quality of your relationship
with one or more persons

Your Expectations

Share-to-Compare your expectations
to make sure Must-Haves align

Relationship Dashboard

A single view of how your relationship is going and what to work on

Trends

View the quality of your relationship over time and the strength of your Relationship's Demon

Baseline Grade

Establish a starting point for how good you and your person think and feel is your relationship together

Rate Your Day

Reduce surprises sharing how you really feel about being together today

The Relationship Workout
3-Stage Program

In 10 minutes, grade your relationship
In an hour, get personalized recommendations on what to work on

Pair-to-Share-to-Compare
with Your Person

Share and compare digitally both of your points of view on your relationship's strengths and weaknesses

Collaborate
with Your Therapist

Allow your therapist access to your Relationship Workout information to inform and enhance counseling

Keep Your
Relationship Journal

Record your fun- and drama- filled moments together, and view where you tend to have more fun and drama

Learn to Be a Better Partner
through the Master Class

Receive badges for completing lessons.
Earn all badges to become Relationship Workout Black Belt Certified

Play the Relationship Workout
Dating Game

Have fun asking serious to playful to downright erotic questions on a journey to learning more about each other

Built on the Relationship Workout Series

A five-step, 12-core plan to help you reduce drama
in your intimate relationship

12-Core Areas

  1. The Mind
  2. Chemistry
  3. Dating Intentions
  4. Emotional Availability
  5. Alignment
  6. Kindness
  7. Integrity
  8. Ownership
  9. Anger
  10. Conflict
  11. Anxiety
  12. Communications

The Master Class

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  • Written for a general audience
  • No locker room talk

The Men's Manual

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  • Written specifically for adult men
  • Includes locker room talk

What are others saying?

“To be sure, my past has been blessed with wonderful relationships, but they have not yielded my goal of a lifetime partner and family. And at this point in my life, I’ve come to realize that I need to be more focused on finding my special someone for life. This is where Relationship Workout provides an applicable framework and a five step process that helps me to think about what’s really important in a relationship and a set of questions to ask while dating to help me – rather us – more quickly determine how “good” we really might be together – for the long term.”
Leander Z.
“Reading Relationship Workout helped me to look at and understand experiences from my past in different ways. And while reading the book, it helped me to think about how to approach relationships in ways I never thought about before. It’s really helping me to structure how and what I talk about to the man in my life. Great book!”
Michelle H.
“Relationship Workout provides a unique, elegant and easy to grasp framework and revealing guide to understanding yourself, the other person and your relationship. The insights shared, based on a blend of Vince’s own experiences as well as relationship/human behavior models from a variety of different sources, are presented in the most readable and appealing format/layout you could find in a book written for different audiences.

I´ve used many of the concepts and practical techniques to diagnose, improve and keep working on different kinds of close personal relationships in my life, not just romantic ones.”
Miguel P.
“As the mother of a teenage boy, I realize I need to start now coaching my son about dating and relationships. Like any mother, I want for him to have a happy love life. And although at the moment it’s way too early for him to be thinking about “getting married,” I know it’s not too early to share with him insights on how to be a better man in a relationship. Relationship Workout is filled with a lot of really great tools and stories that help me structure many of our conversations around dating and what it means to be a good partner. Ultimately, the book helps us flesh out more about what he knows and what he doesn’t know, and there certainly is a lot he doesn’t know yet about relationships.”
Belinda B.

How do you measure the quality of your relationship?

The quality of your relationship is determined by how much fun versus drama you have together.

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Research shows a stable relationship has five moments of fun for each moment of drama.

The question is how do you reduce the drama in your relationship
so you have more time, energy and desire to have more fun together?

Check out Relationship Workout for free to find out

All memberships come with a 7-day free trial

Listen to the
Relationship Workout for Men
Podcast

A podcast dedicated to helping men be intentional in choosing a better partner, and being a better partner for the person they choose.